Sorry his family does seem difficult ..It is hard to forgive. I think we have to go against our nature that wants to hold on to anger and resentments think we have to practice training our mind to let go it s in our attitude --after practicing it for a while,,It takes hold I put it in Gods hands
If you like the codependent no more book by melody Beattie- you may want to check out coda ..a 12 step group the meetings are everywhere and some are very good
Hope your thanksgiving turns out well-
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