Last thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2696874&page=1 It's been a while. I suppose you could say things have taken a turn for the worse. I had been falling for temp checks repeatedly, because I was not recognizing them as such. Now she is sort of out of the house. She sleeps at one of "our friends" house, as in I don't know which friend she is staying with. This friend says she doesn't want me to know, because I would be mad at her. Pretty silly, but I really don't know how W is presenting the situation. Anyway, W has to take care of the kids so she comes in the morning and leaves shortly after I get home. She wants to find a place so she can have the kids stay with her, but there really is no way financially she can do this. So I'm stuck seeing her everyday which has been challenging. I'm GALing fairly well. I'm having fun with the kids and hanging out with my D14 a lot. I'm looking into new business opportunities, eating good food, going to the gym when I can (I'm getting pretty fit!), bought some new clothes (two pant sizes down!). Good stuff. I've been doing personal journalling through the tough times which seems to be helping. I'll try to post more when I can.