I will be concentrating on what I can control. Changing my surroundings at home so there is no longer a visual reminder of the M - photos being replaced with photos of my S (so there is a positive visualisation instead). I'm also fixing up a bits in the house that need doing.
Sounds great! You might want to consider having one picture of his mother, in your little boy's bedroom. Just a suggestion, since he's so young and with so many changes in his home.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
