darknes...I told them both in person. The came to my house last night and asked me if I heard from the sister. I told her that I had not and that they needed to bury the hatchet.

Funny thing is...the sister called me later asking about the email and I told her the same. I did not try and explain the crazy. I just told them both to talk to each other about it.

As I said before...I have been the sibling buffer for many years. I have known my youngest SIL since she was a 13 yo kid. She is like a baby sister to me. I think we have been closer over the years than she and my W have been, but definitely so over the last 4-5 months. She doesn't agree with my W's batchitcrazy ideas right now.

The oldest SIL is ever more batchitcrazy than the W is right now...depression, substance abuse, and the list goes on. She is the black sheep of the family and my W has been the only one to try and take care of her over the years. Now my W is battling her own demons and even the crazy SIL has abandoned her. WOW my life is nuts.


Me 49 W46
T25 M22
S22 D18 S13
W had EA Apr-Jul 2016
Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
ILYBINILWYA
HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!