Hi, looks like you already had some good advice here, but I'm also going to chime in that you need some legal advice and pronto.
The thing is with her. She wants this to go the way she wants it. She has a vision in her mind where she walks away with X and Y and everything is cordial etc..
But, what she is proposing may not work for you and you need someone knowledgeable on your team to advise you and act in your best interests.
You won't regret it I promise - even if she gets a bit cross about it....
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