She moved out...now the work begins...II

[SBJ]

OK so the W called telling that the D papers are ready and that they are going to serve me today...what a wonderful way to start your morning. I have not retained an attorney yet, but have consulted with one. The W is trying to get me to just use her attorney and keep the cost down...she has stated that there are no demands in the papers and that everything says that the parties will agree on everything. I am really struggling with this. Do I retain an attorney to cover my ass and really piss her off more? I understand that at this stage it is about covering my @$$, but I also don't really want to spend $5k either. I also understand that I shouldn't believe much of anything that she is saying.

After listening to her spew last night about her family, she calls me to tell me about the papers and also to accuse me of talking to her sister about her. I know everyone has said that standing for you marriage is the hardest thing you will do, but this is ridiculous. She is making it easy for me to not view her in a good light any more. I love her more than anything, but I sure don't like her right now.

She is wanting to fly thru the D...why? To get on with her happy new life? To be able to start a relationship with another man? Who knows, but this D stuff is for the birds. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.