Vey detached, no longer anxious, in limbo

[Painter]

Good to hear from you, Phoebe!

I think it's harder to move forward and that the grief lasts longer when we are left without an explanation we can understand, or when we are treated with hostility when we feel we didn't do anything to deserve it, or when things happen abruptly and suddenly and communication is cut off. I'm sure there's other factors as well, but unanswered questions and the feeling of unfairness can certainly keep us stuck.

It takes the time it takes.

(((((Phoebe)))))