The W on the other hand will only start to go through the processes that I've been going through when she moves into her own place. She'll have to learn what life is like without a partner, what its like to be on your own and how hard it is to juggle everything all at once without much support.
Honestly, Id stop worrying so much about this. Who knows what shes doing or thinking. I tried to frame everything I could with regards to my ex in a way that would lean us towards reconciling, but all it did was wear me out.
Originally Posted By: RBG80
Right now I have an understanding of why some of my previous behavior was deemed as controlling and I can work on that. I accept and own the responsibility for the issues I've caused in the M and will continue to work om myself for me & my S. If one day that an impact on her, then so be it and if not I'll be in a better position myself.
This is much more important. Focus on your side of the street. You got this.
