Originally Posted By: whatisis
C'mon G, spill the beans (where the heck did that phrase come from?)!How was the date?


Well, I did reach a milestone of a 3rd date from someone I met online. We went out for sushi, I was freakin' starving. We had a nice dinner and conversation and we went back to his house and cuddled and watched a movie and aptly passed out. I woke up at 1am and went home.

He is very different from anyone I have ever dated. Some things I like, some I wish were different. And it's not major stuff. I began to overanalyze and compare on my drive to work this morning, but I decided to stop.

I'm really trying to go with the flow and not look down the road, but yes, there will be a date #4.

There are many reasons why I wish I didn't get divorced. But for real, starting over and over and over again is not how I imagined it. Working on a relationship with the person you married and the work you do to actively love that person is the work I'd rather be doing.

Don't get me wrong, I am making the best of my situation.