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Job which reconnection thread do you mean? Yes I would be interested in reading about reconnecting.

I read up s bit on other sites about mlc. Replay alone is usually almost two years on average from BD!! I better hurry up and get my BD from W

I have switched my main focus back onto me though will continue to learn about mlc. I am looking up info on assertiveness, changing personality traits to self improve and diving again into gratitude.
With the American Thanksgiving coming up soon I will kick start my gratitude project I have thought about before.

One thing that I have been wondering about was resparked by reading from Maximus yesterday in newcomers. As I have been reflecting upon my boundaries with W and my assertiveness I wondered is my not saying anything about W not wearing rings could be considered as weak by W? I thought there was no point doing so before she wants back in, plus I don't want her to wear it just to appease me. But we are married and still together so at times I do want to voice up.

This is not to be controlling but is something to be addressed sooner or later. What do the vets think of the firmer approach taken by Maximus?
AAnytime I have laid a boundary or being verbally unhappy W has never pulled away and may even have reacted better. Not to improve things but to ensure status quo remains. Maybe I am not explaining this fully but just an observation.

Thanks for reading.