I went to pick up my kids tonight and my son was taking a long time, so I went to the door and there was an envelope on the doormat that he left for me. In it was $40 and a note that said "I have decided that I will no longer be visiting your house for the remainder of the days before I turn 18. I will continue to pay off my debt to you. Please refrain from contacting me in the future" I kept knocking on the door, but he wouldn't come out. I told him I was going to call the sheriff, as I wanted to talk to him and get an answer and it was supposed to be my time with him. He wouldn't come out and I have no idea what was going on. I called the sheriff's department to ask a deputy to assist me, as I don't trust my Ex-W to not make false accusations. The deputy called me and stated that my son had already called and that he said my son told him that I had been really mean to him lately (my son has always been EXTREMELY sensitive, which I am sure is related to his ASD). I told the deputy that I was not going to drag him home if he didn't want to go, but that he is still a minor. The deputy said there was nothing he could do and that the fact that he is not yet 18 is irrelevant. I know for a fact that that is BS, but I wasn't going to argue with him. I am sure my ex knew about this before it happened, but failed to mention it to me. I had his phone service suspended. It baffles me that he said I was mean to him. Actually, he has been mean and disrespectful to me, but just like his mom, he has learned to flip things around on other people. His actions tonight are the same passive-aggressive types of BS actions his mother takes. He wouldn't talk to me and I had no idea why. I dealt with that for years when i had no idea what I might have done wrong and no way to fix it. Regardless, I am extremely hurt. My kids mean more to me than anything in the world and there is nothing I can do right for them. I really don't know what to do. When does the pain stop?
