Fightin and J20...Yes the same thing happened to me....before my W moved out we were drinking a couple of times and ended up in bed together (before I found this site) she seemed upset with herself and said this wouldn't fix anything. I looked at her phone later and she told one of her school friends that she felt like she was cheating on OW even though they weren't "together".

I agree it is crazy that these sitches are alike......I thought I was alone as well and that I was going crazy...I am so thankful for this site!


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017