Something you said earlier made me chuckle. The part about her feeling like she's cheating on her gf with you.
It's the same exact thing in my sitch. A month or 2 ago I actually mentioned that to her (pre solid DB days). Mentioned that I wouldn't tell OM if she hugged me and it's not cheating hahaha
Man it's so crazy to me how crazy people are! Before this forum and s ton of other online reading, I felt so alone in my "unique" situation only to realize that my situation is a nickel a dozen. I'm not alone!
Keep doing your thing.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
