W had A and broke it off soon as I confronted her

[Steady9]

hmmm...I am working on a couple of things, more supportive of my son and more listening or focused listening when my W talks. More helpful right away... like if she needs something done around the house..I do then versus next weekend...

that being said.... it seems that she became less happy over a a period of months and then distance herself from me emotionally--right now, she seems to own this part and not blaming me.... Although from reading these forums I know I need to do more on communication etc. But so far she is owning her drifting away to lack of happiness that maybe she owns...

She told me that -- she needed me to confront her about the A to shake her out of it.... actually she said, "I needed you to see through my avatar to the real me..." from that movie.... That helped her get back to me, end the A that day (luckily it was across the country) She said she felt like crap over the summer, she was not enjoying herself... so not quite sure what it was all about...yet.

I think she is still working through it... but appears to be happy to get a second chance at home.