She moved out...now the work begins...II

[SBJ]

To quote The Godfather..."Just when I get out, they drag me back in"...the W wrote an email today to her sister and BIL regarding something that went down right after the BD that involved the EA partner. The sister claims that my wife is not telling the truth about certain things. The W says that she is sick of being called a liar. Anyway...she copied me into the email and drug me into the conversation. I told them both that they are siblings and need to work this out. I told my W that she has made it clear that she doesn't want my opinion about anything else and asked why is this different. Her response was golden...she said that I have always been her buffer between her and them. Hasn't she fired me from that role?

She came to my house this evening to get something for the kids and I sat and listened to her for quite a while without preaching. It is funny how she wants out of our M, but still needs the R when it's handy. I tried to validate her without giving my real opinion.