She seems to be getting glimpses of her new reality- Maybe skimming the bottom but does not sound like she hit it yet
I think it takes a lot of pain b4 they hit the bottom and hit they must I think most will continue to run until the pain gets to great and too close and they can't run anymore
I do think she will include you on her journey down Maybe by the time they really hit..they will then be apologizing and taking responsibility to fix and reconnect
Im not sure because my situation never came full circle and my XH is still hovering above his bottom hope you have. good night
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