Shes had counseling off an on, but only recently has she worked with someone who seems to be reaching her. As far as the friends I get it, but she has so few as she is introverted, that she hasn't socialized this at all. The lack of research or socializing for her leaves her out there with no input as to what is happening to her. I only hope her counselor can reach her and that I have staying power to wait it out.
She has a hysterectomy scheduled for late January and that will be another hurdle for her and she hasn't planned on how she will take care of herself.....I get this feeling she's expecting me to do it.....yet she's leaving me.....I am struggling with what to do, as I should back off and let her OM take care of it. I am done being the safety net, as thats what I think she thinks of me as.
What would you suggest?
Hello 2Tours,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in and that your wife was abused.
Is your counselor marriage friendly? It would be good to know so that you can manage your expectations in that department. Not all counselors are good marriage counselors. I'm happy to send you a link to Michele's "When Couples Therapy is a Bad Idea" if you would like to email me directly.
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
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