I don't often comment on other's posts because I'm so new I more often feel like I'm flailing in the waters and I don't have anything to offer in the way of advice or support, but I do read here a lot and the wealth of knowledge and experience here is inspiring!
fightin,
Your user name constantly reminds me of the 1974 song "Everybody was Kung Fu Fighting."
Chorus:
Everybody was kung-fu fighting Those kicks were fast as lightning In fact it was a little bit frightening But they fought with expert timing
You shouldn't be timid about posting. You don't have to post advice; often a few words of sympathy mean a lot more than offering advice.