Are you working on anything that goes back to before the affair? It seems like all the focus is on dealing with the fallout of the affair, and nothing is about dealing with ways in which you contributed to the breakdown of the marriage.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
