Originally Posted By: TxHubby
The DB technique for dealing with an affair pretty much depends on how she responds when you confront her. The program has guidelines to follow if she's remorseful and ends the affair and also if she's not and continues the affair. DB has you covered either way so confront. No screaming. No harsh judgments. Be honest that you know and how it makes you feel. The decision from there is hers.


Thank you for this reminder. I know that she will be defensive and act like it is no big deal because in her mind, we are not married. I have already prepared myself for her response. If she was remorseful, I would fall over in shock. Not really, I would stay strong. Thanks again for the thoughts.


M-42
W-40
S-12
D-10
Together-13 years
Married-10 years
Separated-6/2016
ILYBINILWY-7/2016
EA-4/2016 (best guess)
PA-7/2016 (best guess)