Jjb, I always thought that your H may just be kid's father's (KF) long-lost twin. They have to be genetically related somehow.
Mine was 'What have you ever done for me?'
Cooked and ate fish every day (he loves them; I don't). Gave up promotions at work. Stayed home to look after kid. Yada yada blah blah blah. Millions of other insignificant stuff.
And didn't expose them to their colleagues even though they have been spreading rumours about me.
Hmmmm.... So what was his question again?
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
