It sounds a lot different than mine...my WS hadn't really treated our M like that...but the MCL has brought about an abrupt change. I have read a lot about the MCL and I see the parallels.

We are going to do a 30 day NC managed by our counselor on Dec 1st. She calls me or texts me, especially since I have LRT her more now than in the first few weeks. She asks how I am, what I am up to....I stick to LRT and I feel better about it.

I know I am on the right path and the input from these boards are priceless. I know that I didn't cause the MCL and that I have no control over it, other than how I react to it and how I let it affect me. I really feel better everyday. She will realize what's happened someday and I can't do anything to change that.


M52 W52
M17 T20
SS 23 from my 1st M Lives on his own
BD 10/01/16
Trial Sep 12/01/16