Lol..great post.

Love that your Replacing being salesman of the year with being father of the year. Now that's growth and something you will look back on with no regrets. I think that the workaholic "cats in the cradle dad" will eventually understand what he missed out on. Sadly though it's the kids that suffer.

It doesn't matter the game or activity ...it's the attention your giving them. The way in which you strive to share your life with them. To teach them something. Any thing.

I see the differences everyday between the kids that have the support of their dads and the ones that don't. I have become really good at picking out the kids at every activity that come from homes of single moms. It's crazy but You can tell by their attention spans, the attention seeking behaviors, and limited discipline And something else I can't put my finger on...but I recognize it.

Anyway, this is great stuff zues. You have lucky kids that are benefitting from your intensity, perfectionism, loyalty, and, discipline. The universe is funny that way.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer