Doodler, I do understand the feeling of not wanting to put in the effort. Sometimes the thought of giving up my Chinese food and Netflix in PJ's night makes me sad. I like those nights. But I would also like to share them with someone. But naughty for cancelling such a big thing last minute! I see it 2 ways, either you really do want to date, but the effort can be overwhelming, or you aren't into it. If you aren't into it, put it on the burner, but don't tease the women with the possibility of Doodler love. That's just cruel!
Ginger,
D@mn I love it when you talk to me like that! I am a bit naughty and I need to be scolded more often.
