Yep...the rewriting of history is par for the course.

Mine actually told friends of mine about a week before the bomb that she loved me and that things were great between us.

Realize that she is going to rewrite history to justify HER choices. This has nothing to do with YOU. Ignore it.

As for the stuff that you both agreed she should take, I would ask her when she plans to be done taking things. As for the walking into YOUR house like she owns the place. The time may come where you may need to let her know in a very respectful manner that she needs to check with you to ensure that YOU are home before just walking in.

SBJ -

1) She decided to move. You did not kick her out.
2) As a result of HER moving - the house is now YOURS. Make it feel that way.
3) Believe it or not....it will get better.

Peace,
Eric

"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
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