Still hanging on ... just

[Oluwa]

Thanks Sandhi for the Detachment post.

I do need to keep reading and re-reading, it is so alien to me to not be involved with my wife and be concerned about her happiness. But I realise 'more of the same' has made no difference in 1.5 years. I have been more fun, ive dont more housework etc etc, but I had never detached. Detachment is the only way forward in my marriage, whether we repair or not, I realise I have no choice but to detach.