Jeep74, Thank you for your input, I've read your posts and I see similarities. My WS is has not had that level of depression or extreme thoughts. I found out too after we married and we still had many years of happiness. I can attribute much of what's happening now to stress from a job she feels she in over her head with, turning 52 and wanting to stay young...talks about life is short, getting older,etc....and unhappiness with self. I don't have a lot of hope for our M, but as I read these books and forum posts, I have a better understanding of the condition. I will take this as another step in my process and keep moving forward.
M52 W52 M17 T20 SS 23 from my 1st M Lives on his own BD 10/01/16 Trial Sep 12/01/16
