Focus on Me and the Boys 10

[J5K]

Painter,

Yes, way in the beginning she just wanted the youngest. XW just continues to say what ever she feels.

Well this past Friday we both signed the final documents. Since it was Veteran's Day the courts were closed, so I think they went in front of the judge today. My L did not get confirmation yet.

xW had the boys this weekend. We exchanged on Friday at 7pm, met halfway. She had a rental and MIL with her. She went to the wrong location and then drove to us.

I went out with some buddies when I returned home and got a lot done this past weekend. It was nice to have a bit of a break to be able to clean the van and catch up on some things and get my life back on track for the boys.

Picked up the boys on Sunday. They said they had a good time. xW took them to a hotel for the weekend. Boys said mom stated FIL was not feeling well so they could not stay at the in laws house. They had fun swimming and just hung out at the hotel mostly. Boys were exhausted when I brought them home.

This exchange was not only inconvenient for me, it was inconvenient for the boys. They were exhausted. I let them sleep in the next morning because we came home a little late.

I also found out that xW did not look in their backpacks so their homework was not completed even though I emailed her on Saturday. I emailed my L and she said I need to document. I also emailed the teachers and stated I would have the boys complete the homework this evening to return on Tuesday. They all thanked me.

Tonight I sent xW an email regarding S6. Today after school he stated that mommy asked if he was going to therapy and was on medication this past weekend.

Here is the email I sent xW:

In the future, I feel it would be more appropriate to ask me if S6 is seeing a therapist or is on medication. This evening he stated that you asked him these questions this weekend. I would not put him on any medication or take him to therapy without informing and consulting you first.

xW response:

I was speaking to my son regarding his behaviour at school.

You have most definitely have not been forthcoming with any information about the children whatsoever.


May I ask why only S8 received a flu shot and none of the other children? And did Dr. X know he was home that day with a fever? I'm certain he would not have administered the vaccine if he did.

My response:

S8 had to get a refill on his medication. S8 did not have a fever when he went to see Dr. X.

As far as the boys behavior in school, are you saying you would like more information on them? If so, I can send you their teachers email address so you may be copied on all issues regarding the boys.

I then sent a separate email asking if she agreed to my last proposal on the furniture in the house. This conversation is for another post as it is escalating out of control and we are emailing back and forth even as I write this post.