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Job. Thank you for taking the time to look up those links and for giving me a brief outline.I understand your warnings and take heed. I am just trying to understand the phases so I can converse better with others here. In part I will use this info to review my situation but without dwelling on it.

However I would be interested on reading more about low energy mlc or however best describe my situation.

I hear you about keeping the focus on ourselves.IIt is great advice. Still living as a couple enhances for me our situation . It is ever present.neither of us is happy with how we are. I know my overall happiness should be independent of my M and I am still figuring out how to do that.
But i know thst i will be happy. It is inevitable.

I am a bit down at the moment but nothing I cannot handle.
I know what I need to do or should do. I am not neglecting this

Surfer. Thanks for the vote of confidence.

Best wishes