XW showing signs or just MLC script

[Lana_71]

Hi Irish
Woaaa your are a great person and I am sure she started to realize...I guess it is not greener on the other side... I like your answer to her saying I am sorry you felt that way as it has no blame and it makes them think of their distorted world. I am happy you found a place in urself to forgive her for you. An advice I was once given was consider him a sick man lashing out in a hospital bed would you lash back. You girls have gone through a lot hope they will forget some of these incidents and restore some kind of relationship. I found that if I answer my h with any answer that have accusatory connetation he will go back to tunnel so my best strategy is answer him like a neighbour civilized and short but giving info . she knows what she has done and would love to forget it ..not the best strategy but that is how you get think..show her you moved on by just being better and living a full life with your girls and new friend ...be mysterious and don't satisfy her curiousity .. let her think be vague ... enjoy this time for every move you make is being watched and analyzed and you don't need to provide explanation to any ....have a great day...