It's not hurting your kids that they spend this Christmas with you. It sounds like you love them very much and will make a great Christmas for all of you. That's what is best for the kids. This is your Christmas with them. Divorces have consequences. One of them is that she doesn't get to spend every holiday with the kids. DO NOT let her cake eat or before you know it you'll never spend a holiday with them again. Kids are only young for such a short time. Don't deprive yourself of your rightful holiday with them. Politely tell her no and then plan the greatest Christmas you can for you and the kids. Make some great memories.
