Its funny. I was just speaking to my H's assistant a while ago and she told me how upset and sad H was that we sold the house; it really tore him to pieces. He had told me when he told me he'd filed that I could keep it and he would support me. I was alone in a 4500 square foot house on acreage in the country and my kids are grown and gone. My nearest neighbors couldn't even see the house from their places. I have a take home pay right now that barely paid the phone and electric each month, much less the mortgage. She and I had a laugh at that. He wasn't thinking at all...just wanted one of us to be in it (he said that at one point as we were moving). He also probably wanted to store all of his vehicles and be able to "fix" things. In other words, probably thought I'd just be there as I always had, preserved and unchanged and right where he left me. Talk about the ultimate temp check scenario...no way was I going to ramble around alone in that house so he could find excuses to "visit" or "fix" things and play caretaker. I have an apartment in town now and NC is a lot easier to maintain. If I need something fixed, I just call the manager.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
