It feels completely normal and I question is this really happening because we get along well. She is checked out but is very nice to me...
Bman72,
Her behavior is she because she wants her cake and eat it too. It's highly likely that there's another man in the picture and she wants both of you and her family. In her mind, she just has to finesse everything so that she keeps her family, sans the marriage, and the other guy as well. What could be better?
