IMHO, He should Want to work on the M and show you that before he moves in.

from what you wrote it sounds like he has no choice, and didn't actually mention wanting to work on M or be your H.

If he began working out his issues outside of your home would you want to work something out, not just for the kiddos but for Anna?

lots to think about. whatever decisions you make, make them for you. I'm sure all I've said goes without saying. just a friendly reminder.

Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
Officially Divorced 11/2017