They definitely change in crises
become people we can't recognize

they revert to a younger time and they believe everyone is ok
Everyone wanted this for them
M XH would say why can't you be happy for me-
they think the LBS wanted to D also
They may even think they found the happiness they wanted

But it is short lived .They won't find what they are looking for and you can read many stories here to see the outcomes
Some get help-finally come to their senses
some go off the deep end

You are doing well
Your kids will see your strength ..they need that because they are confused and see MOM as different too-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow