They definitely change in crises become people we can't recognize
they revert to a younger time and they believe everyone is ok Everyone wanted this for them M XH would say why can't you be happy for me- they think the LBS wanted to D also They may even think they found the happiness they wanted
But it is short lived .They won't find what they are looking for and you can read many stories here to see the outcomes Some get help-finally come to their senses some go off the deep end
You are doing well Your kids will see your strength ..they need that because they are confused and see MOM as different too-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow