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[Bman72]

Thanks guys, I appreciate your replies. Lots of good reading there for me to start with.

I am just getting on with my daily life and am pleasant and positive in our interactions and try to achieve little goals each day. My wife still kisses me good morning and I have started to make less effort to approach her for affection so that she may come to me instead...which she does. It feels completely normal and I question is this really happening because we get along well. She is checked out but is very nice to me..she has said that she wants to do the right thing and does not want to end up like her mum and dad who don't talk to each other after they split when she was a young child....My parents are about to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary so being in this situation is completely against my beliefs - I don't understand how someone can just say they are done and not want to even try to improve things....but thats just me ad I can't do anything to change her feelings except be my best. 5 months and I have made a lot of changes within myself and feel the happiest I have in many many years. I would like to think that in time she may see that things could be different.....