HaWho one of the things my H brought up as "marital issues" is the fact the I refused to allow the kids to get out in the sun between 12-4. Apparently my kids are not "more precious" than all the other kids in the Mediterranean, so why am I so fussy about it? I personally cannot stand the sun, and even though I am extremely careful I managed to get Bacal Cell Carcinoma two years ago which is a form of skin cancer. I still remember the terror in his eyes when I got my diagnosis. When Imentioned that to H, he said that I was weird about the sun even before that happened, and I shouldn't use that as an excuse. Apparently all the medical advice is wrong, H knows best.

I'm glad yours now realises the dangers of the sun, obviously it must have been a crazy moment when you heard the words come out of his mouth though!

I don't know what to say about the letter. You "kooky express train" term sums it all up I guess...

Well done for handling the last two years so well, you are an inspiration xxx


"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"

“There is freedom waiting for you,
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask "What if I fall?"
Oh but my darling,
What if you fly?”

-Erin Hanson