I haven't heard of this, but will research it. I know that she's in more than a fog. I also know that this may be our end, but I do care about her enough to know that I don't want to see her do something harmful. What's weird about all of this is that I am not angry with her, just really disappointed that she's taking this path and I am getting more comfortable with moving on daily.
I hear you on the anger/disappointment front...I feel the same way. It may be because I have yet to fully detach, but I still waffle between making excuses for her and feeling sorry for her. The anger only really comes on when I think about my kids, the OM and, quite honestly, when I think about what I could have done to prevent it from happening. In my particular case, it was less about our relationship, and more about external stresses like work, a new house, etc. Too much pressure. I beat myself up still that I should have known she wasn't ready...only to be told by family and friends that stress isn't a viable excuse to do what she has done
