I haven't spoken to H about the OW other than to say that I knew he was having an affair with a young girl because he had denied that for 6 months...I told him I didn't want him to talk about OW to the kids, our mutual friends and myself ever...to keep that part of his life away from us. I also told him that as far as I was concerned she was just a symptom...maybe I should have left that part out:( He did acknowledge in a conversation that he realized that his relationship had an expiration date due to the age difference...what a fool to walk away from a happy family for something temporary!!! Job - I know I have to keep an eye on the bank accounts, etc. but it really hurts to see all the money being spent on holidays, dinners, etc. so I really try not to do that too much. Also I thought we weren't supposed to snoop?? Thank you everybody for you input. xx
