I know this might be a silly question and all, considering the name of the forums and all...

But how far do I go down the road with regards to divorce/dissolution? I have met with a lawyer to understand my options, opened a separate checking account, taken her/my name off of credit cards and potentially insurance. Update my life insurance to pay out for my kids.

Is that enough? Do I pursue a dissolution, or at least start working on the paperwork to communicate I am serious, (I am, sorta...I will not wait forever) or do I just wait it out and look week when she calls my bluff?

I don't want a divorce/dissolution...but it feels inevitable at this point and I fear if I don't initiate it she may lawyer up and cause problems. Maybe not even worry about it for now? I am mostly protected.