The cliff at the top of the mountain.

[DonH]

Doodler, WTF dude? You've got the one you went out with three or four weeks ago, the one with the southern accent, and the one with the recent D who just wants to put her head in your shoulder... Yet you want Ginger to send you someone else? What happened to all of these others, Mother Theresa aside? Did you even take any of them out? Seems to me all three are still in play even though last I heard you didn't have time to date anyhow with the kids needing your time and all. I'd say Ginger needs to send any hot dripping women my way. Or are they all like Mother Threasa in scamville... Or all a made up figment... Or is Doodler just a playah?

(For those readers among us who don't quite know or get me and my sarcasm, I'm just payin myself here... Well playing based in truth anyhow). Besides, Ginger is already my wing women - I called dibs over a month ago.

Ginger, glad I've been a help and sensed as much which is why I would have felt partly to blame if he pulled something on the next date. As for the rules, you're the one who self exposed them - no one else. I'm glad you are trying something new. Whether it works with the plumber or not I think you are doing the complete right thing and learning a lot in the process. Very solid learning expierence. As I've said before, the Rs that worked the best for me were the ones I had the very attitude you are striving for now. The harder I tried and the more invested I was, the worse it often went. It was with those I Pursued the least that lasted the longest. Hmmmmmm certainly sounds like I need to get back there, doesnt it? I've so lost my mojo of my late 20s, 30s and early 40s.