Thanks Cadet...As I said in my opening. I have been reading DR and practicing it...still in counseling with her and now we are headed to a 30 NC Trial Separation managed by our counselor. So I am headed in the right direction,
As far as her, she finally told a couple that we know and they are blown away by her...they said that she seemed to think this was all Ok. The wife of this couple was LBS in her first marriage and she contacted me to tell me how angry she is at my WS. She is going to tell her what she thinks when they see her again soon. My WS is acting like this is normal and has shown no emotion. Even our counselor commented that this seems unhealthy. She almost has a split personality.....so the road is a long one. I am in for some of it, but see that as I am GAL, I may not have the patience needed to go more than 60 days.


M52 W52
M17 T20
SS 23 from my 1st M Lives on his own
BD 10/01/16
Trial Sep 12/01/16