I want ya'll to know that I appreciate everyone allowing me to talk about Harley Quinn...I know it isn't part of my situation with the ex - and really has nothing to do with DB...well, it does show a model of what not to do in a relationship, I guess.
Now it seems as if things are happening at a rate I may/may not be ready for, but its time that some decisions are to be made. So I guess we will know soon enough.
On an unrelated note - (some will get this and some won't) I had a conversation with a "friend" about pursuing/non pursuing - its a two-way street. Maybe that's why coms hasn't been there as much. I'm available to discuss and easy enough to find.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.