Just keep up the good work. Remember the changes you are making are for you no matter what happens in your sitch, be positive for yourself everyday. I have been able to find ways to be positive over the last 6 months no matter the outcome of my sitch. I have been informed that my changes have been noticed but it is too late and it won't last, she has gotten her hopes up too many times in the past and now it really just irritates my W, but I'm making these changes for me. You will make mistakes along the way but don't worry about it, just correct them and get back on track, don't backslide. My marriage has been in crisis for 15 years and my W gave up about 3 years ago but I'm still not giving up on the changes I'm making and I still keep the hope no matter how slim it may seem. Keep up your hope and keep making changes you will be better off for it.


H:44 W:43
M:17
S:15 S:14 S:12
W mentions divorce 8/2015
W files divorce 10/2016
D will be final 4/2017
Living together & will for a while