Struggling

[fightin]

I want to move out. She bought the house before we met and I do not want to try to coexist with her here. She has made it very clear that she wants the new woman to move in.

At this point I just want to start the healing process and focus on myself.

She has repeatedly stated that the OW isn't interested in the kinds of things we do together, plus she has physical limitations that prevent her from doing things like riding UTVs/ATVs and motorcycles which are two things my STBX and I love doing together. She also said the OW currently is a homebody and my STBX let her know that she won't put up with that because she likes to go-go-go.

I said to her "So you're going into this expecting her to change for you and that you're okay giving up the things you enjoy to be with her? And you're sure this is what you want to do just 1 month in?" She replied that the OW makes her so happy that she doesn't see it as compromising anything. She also said she knows it is possible that 1 month into this she might regret it all, but that's a risk she's willing to take and if it does happen then she deserves it. That last part she sure has right. I can't possibly see how my STBX could live a happy life with someone that can't keep up with her need for speed and fun, but best of luck to them both.