WW Wife - Do I confront her?

[Matrix]

Wow GB, that is a lot to take in. I know that what you are saying is probably the truth and the fear of the confrontation has me frozen at the moment. I know that things can't continue like this forever and I need to make a choice.

I just have this feeling that once I confront her, she will go in the other direction so fast and I can't see how we could reconcile from there.

You and TxHubby have been the only two in favor of confronting her and everything you said above is true. I wish at times that the OM was married. I could easily confront the OM wife or at least have the option to confront her.

I am at a loss. We have been very friendly lately and our two kids seem to enjoy us being friendly. I know a confrontation could end all communication and I admit that freaks me out. I welcome any other input on this, as I am battling this decision daily and it is causing me great stress and anxiety.