I just had a temp check. and I didn't even know it.
w- not sure if you’re busy, but I’m in town…if you have a few, maybe we could meet for coffee around 945? W-it’s fine if not, just thought I’d check Me- it’s to early to leave for “lunch” the earliest I can meet is 11am W- oh ok, no worries. Maybe next time. Me-ok.
Well shoot. I will need to re read divorce busting. My friend told me I basically said “ok I’ll be waiting until next time you ask” wth! I don’t want her to think that. W comes to my little town around 3 times a week. I’m sure I’ll have more of these. But I have to be careful not to let her suck me into a “friendship” because that’s not what I want or need. Going forward, I will not be the last to respond. I shouldn’t have said Ok. And If there is a next time I will say I already have plans for my “lunch” hour. W doesn’t need to know those plans are to go for a run.
I feel because W thinks I’m moving on she will start to temp check more, try to make us “friends” and basically keep me around until she’s “ready”. must not let this happen.
CheesyT will continue to move forward. Without My W and D.
