Thanks for clarifying. I thought it was along thoses lines but I appreciate your explanation. smile

The threads I could not open were in the thread that regrouped resources and the titles indicated an out line of mlc phases. Another was mlc for dummies.

Many people here mention W is in anger or depression or other phase. And before commenting on their threads I wanted to freshen up my understanding. Plus will do me no harm to be more learned. wink


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together