She moved out...now the work begins...II

[SBJ]

eric...I only have control over "ME" and that is to detach and stand.

She had dropped off my kids to my house before I arrived home from my trip...it is hard coming home each time and seeing more things missing. She had forgotten to drop off the youngest son's backpack, so I sent her a text saying that we needed it. She came thru about 830pm like everything in her world is rosy. I guess it kind of got to me, but then I sat back and laughed. She has these blinders on that all of the things in her world are great, but her family is falling apart around her. This includes our marriage, but also her siblings and parents relationships are very strained right now. Maybe her happy face is like a blinder to all of those probs. I just don't know. All I know is, like so many have said here before, she is not the W that I have known for the last 22+ years. I miss her, but...