Hard to say how long an Affair will last
some end quickly
usually the OW is not very put together and has issues-who else would go for a M Man

I think the more we stay out of it.the better
we just have to wish them the best or they will go faster and father if we talk bad about this new girl-

I had no contact with the OW ever(now XH wife)
she called here once or twice (I think she enjoyed the fact that she won the prize..my xh)
But recently , I learned xh is trying to get out of his Marriage and is extremely unhappy
It takes time for the euphoria end
but it always does-
because another person can't save us or take us our of crises..only prolong it
but the MLCer has to try and they all seem to.

Rarely, do I hear from any LBS that their MLCer is extremely happy and well adjusted in their new life and as the years progress they get worse unless they come to

hang in there


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow